Good Intentions

Well it seems my intentions of putting up a photo essay entry about Tobias the Adequate, a comical magician we were entertained by at the Valhalla Renaissance Faire a few weeks ago have been sidelined by a number of things. First, the photos are just too big to put here and get the full effect, so that means there’s a lot of work entailed in putting them up in a photo album online. In the meantime, I’m working on keeping things at an even keel in the homestead now that the kids are home full-time, the hubby is enduring night time construction (and bright lights, jackhammers, and the bleating of trucks as they throw the gears in reverse) right outside the station, and keeping pace with several works in progress manuscripts in preparation for a writing convention I’ll be attending late next month. And if that’s not enough to keep me on my toes, let’s throw into the mix the work that’s involved in keeping the fledgling writer’s group going throughout the “leaner” months when the majority of the members take the time off to be with their family, travel and so forth.

Thankfully Mother Nature has been able to stave off the fire season this year with periodic rains. Whether that turns out to be a true blessing or just pushing us back a bit further for a more frantic, furious season has yet to be seen. It has made the wild grasses grow longer which means as the temperature rises such as it has within the last few days, those long grasses dry out and become horrific wicks.  I doubt I’ll be able to update my blog with details of any fires my husband is working on or pose a threat to our community, but I abide by the rule of never saying never, so we’ll see how that pans out. In the chance I don’t, here are some fairly good sources of fire information:

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Finally before I go back to transcribing my manuscript (which I spent upwards of an hour this morning at my weekly write-in having to restructure after I found a major flaw in the timeline– rewarding to get it done, but frustrating to have to endure), a reminder. As you might recall, our friend and a fellow firefighter’s young adult son, Sean, was critically injured in an accident at the end of May. He’s been getting better and was transferred to a rehabilitation hospital down in the northern San Francisco Bay Area. However this has caused a lot of strain on their small and close family as his dad, Vince, has returned to duty. They’re in the process of transferring him back home. I continue to post updates at Terri, Sean’s mother, posts them. They can be found at the Angels Near and Far blog which is located at http://www.kathieleung.com/blog/ Please visit often and keep Sean and his family in your thoughts and prayers.

Also, please keep two of my friends, Anne and Julie, in your thoughts and prayers as both of them are enduring many trials and tribulations that have come with news they have cancer – again. It’s been amazing watching all three of these situations and the people in the center of them as their strength, their graciousness and their beautiful spirits have shone through so beautifully. It’s been humbling as well and has caused me, for one, to learn it’s important to balance things out, to appreciate what we have right around us and has served as a thump on my head to remind me the world does not revolved around me alone. And you’d think having teenagers would have done that just fine alone!

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Two for the Price of One Prayer – Updates on Sean

It was nice to come home from a grueling day at Costco to find two messages from Terri about Sean’s progress.  In the order they were posted, here you are:

Trying on patience

Posted at approximately 11:45 am PT

Sean is doing about the same, still fighting a temp but his ICP is at about 18 which is fine. They upped a couple of his meds so they seem to be having some success lowering the pentabarb.

Today on my way to the hospital for my 6am visit I was praying again for patience. I asked God to help me be patient and kind and loving to all people that I came in contact with. Well I got to the hospital and they said I had to wait 15 minutes to see Sean and you guessed it, I felt very inpatient. I recognized it right away though and resumed my prayer for patience. Today Sean has a new nurse and I don’t think that she is entirely comfortable with me hanging out in Sean’s room, so I am trying to give her space and also pop in from time to time to be with Sean. We have been here for so long now that for the most part Sean gets repeat nurses and we have established a rapport with them so they don’t seem to mind us hanging around. But you know what? This is the Sean show and as long as Sean is getting the best care possible the nurse doesn’t have to handle us. I think that today God intends for me to get my money’s worth out of that prayer for patience! As long as God is in charge (always) how can I question it.

As for us, we are taking good care of ourselves as well as all of you taking care of us. Yesterday my wonderful friend Kelly gave Kiersten and I much needed massages. Vince and I went for a walk with [our friends] and Kiersten went to our health club to work out. So no more worrying about us. Just pray for Sean. Thank you all as always.

Thought for the day:

Colossians 3:12-14 Therefore, as God’s chosen people, holy and dearly loved, clothe yourselves with compassion, kindness, humility, gentleness, and patience. Bear with each other and forgive whatever greivances you may have against one another. Forgive as the Lord forgave you. And over all these virtues put on love, which binds them all together in perfect unity.”

Love,
Terri, Vince, Sean & Kiersten

I’m listening God

Posted at approximately 12:15 pm PT

Just peeked in to see Sean and his temp, blood pressure, heart rate and ICP are all down. Okay God I’m listening. By being patient and doing things the nurses way Sean is resting well. Oh and when she suctioned him earlier he opened his left eye! I didn’t talk to him when I went in because he is resting and doing so well. [These] nurses rock!

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Patience In Healing – Update On Sean

As I read this update from Terri, I envisioned a wound healing and getting to that itchy stage where you just want to itch and peel off that scab but know you just have to be patient and let the wound finish healing. The news Terri has to share today is exciting at so many levels! Time to rejoice! :)

Posted at approximately 10 pm PT

Kiersten and I just returned from the hospital. We said goodnight to Sean. Vince will stay with him until 2 and I will return at 6 as is our routine. Sean’s day started out really good and then he had a rough afternoon. It was the usual stuff, a fever and his ICP. Not horrible but a little rough. When we left he seemed to be starting to trend back in the right direction. He is in a lighter sedation as I said earlier and today whenever we talked to him he kept trying to blink and sometimes it looked like he was struggling to open his eyes. We explained to him a few times that he was in an accident and that he is safe but he needs to rest to get a little better before he can wake up. We told him to relax and not fight the sedation. This is exciting because it is signs of good brain activity, but it is hard because he wants to wake up and we miss him so bad we want him to wake up also. Kiersten and I were talking about it and we realized that it has been quite a few days since we last had a melt down so maybe we are overdue. We just miss him. For those of you who don’t know him, he has the best smile and he is so funny. He makes us laugh all the time. He is also intelligent and a good conversationalist. He is just such an important part of our family. Did I say we miss him? I know in my heart that God is healing Sean. It is so evident. It is amazing how many people care about him and are praying for him, not only outside the hospital but in the ICU. His nurses have become very fond of him and I can’t prove it but I suspect that there is a little competition to see who gets to take care of him each shift. Several nurses are praying for him which is such a comfort to us to know that not only are these highly skilled professionals caring for our son but they get who is really in charge.

Thank you beautiful people in and outside of the hospital for loving our Sean. Thank you for your prayers and support.

Love,
Terri, Vince, Sean & Kiersten

Kyle and Kayla are in Redding for a few days taking care of their mama who had carpel tunnel surgery on both wrists today. Please pray for speedy healing for Kim. (She’s not very patient :) )

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Good Signs: Update on Sean

Sorry, this was a sleep in and then jump to work on edits for upcoming conference morning. 

Posted this morning.

Yesterday was so hectic that it was difficult to find a moment to update so I am updating before I go back to the hospital. I went to see Sean at 6 and he was doing well. His night was okay, not great, but okay. He had a CT at 4 and tolerated it well. While I was there he was taking spontaneous breaths and biting his breathing tube. All good signs but as I said last night they want him more sedated. While I was there Dr. Lobosky came in to check on Sean. He showed me Sean’s CT and he said that it looks like maybe the swelling is starting to decrease. In the new CT you can see squiggly lines and a place where there is cerebral fluid. He showed me an earlier CT where this wasn’t visible. God is holding on to Sean and He will see him through this.

As for the rest of us, we are working on trying to get more sleep and exercise. My friend Sue comes by the hospital and walks me everyday which is greatly needed and appreciated. We are eating well. Thanks to all who are feeding us. The dinners have been above and beyond. I don’t think that I will want to go back to cooking. Thank you to all of you who are supporting us in so many ways. You are all examples of God’s love. It is no accident that you have found yourselves in this place at this time. I know that God has placed each and every one of you in our path because He loves all of us so much.

I haven’t given an assignment in awhile so here it goes. Eat something healthy today, get a little exercise and a little rest. Thank God that He has given you these simple gifts that we take for granted. When crisis strikes these simple everyday activities are hard to come by, so enjoy them and appreciate them, really appreciate them, when they are easy to come by.
As always please pray for Sean, and remember God is great and He is present.

Love,
Terri, VInce, Sean, & Kiersten

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Elevated Temps and ICP, Surgery, Recovery: Sean’s Updates

Earlier today Terri put out a brief update I just happened to catch and emailed out to those on the list.  Here, in the order they came through (which was fast and furious) are the updates from this evening:

Posted at approximately 8:30 pm PT

Sean is having swan catheter(a catheter that measures cardiac output) replaced right now. It was supposed to have happened at 4:30 but it’s been a busy day around here so the cardiologist wasn’t free until later. He has to have the swan catheter as long as they have him on the pentabarb. He had one but it is 13 days old and was no longer working correctly and they fear infection when it gets that old. Sean had a rough day today. He had a fever and he was coughing a lot earlier which made his ICP go up. He also had a rapid heart rate because of the fever. Earlier when the Dr. was in with the nurses I got a chance to listen in. He really wants Sean off the pentabarb so they are going to throw everything else at him to achieve that goal. Sean’s sedation level was lighter earlier so that is why he was coughing so much. He was also shivering and biting the breathing tube. The Dr. wants him to be more heavily sedated, just not with the pentabarb. When Vince and I left at 5:30 things were beginning to turn around. His ICP, fever and temp were all coming down. When we left we thought that we would be able to come back in at 8 after the shift change but unfortunately the surgery was pushed back. So here we sit waiting, anxious because we haven’t seen him in 3 hours. But, God is in that room with him and the surgeon and everyone else so we know that he is in good hands. Pray for him as always. I will update after I see him and go home.
Love,
Terri, Vince, Sean & Kiersten

quick update..

Posted at approximately 10:00 pm PT

hi guys,
the catheter was just put it…and all is going fairly smoothly.
Sean is still shivering, and still has a fever. His ICP’s are
basically the same as before. No new news for you all, but have a
good night:).
Love,
The [Terri, Vince, Sean & Kiersten]

Posted at approximately 10:20 pm PT

Just back from the hospital. Sean’s ICP was 16 when I left. All
indications are that he should have a good night. Please pray with
us that he does. Thank you all for your prayers and support.
Love,
Sean and family

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